This morning, I came to think of how I come back home, spend time in front of the TV and internet.
I do not blink twice to even think of what I need to do if I stop doing this waste of time activity.
I need to get a plan in place once I am back home.
I need to:
- have clothes ironed for the next day;
- see the house has sufficient supplies of everything needed to run without having to run out every one or two days to buy things
- see the finance related items are tracked once every month – identify a day to focus on bank tasks, and one day on investment tracking
- discuss Indore issues weekly and see alternatives for that
o construction funding
o health checkup schedules
- monitor health, identify good doctors around, talk to Rachana
- identify a good financial planner to monitor insurance needs, investment plans
- plan for pre-payment of loan, set aside funds every month for that
- read Read READ and Study rather than TV and internet
be focused and use time effectively despite the travel
do all this with the work pressure that is likely to be on for a long time – if I need to maintain the financial situation I am in;
improvement of this situation is a different aspect altogether which needs a different strategy which I have not thought about yet…
bujju called last night but Since I had a nature call, didn’t spend time with her.. she was feeling disappointed…I felt
somewhere inside, today I felt that I should not worry too much about the work. I should just understand the key areas I have to focus on and take the rest as they come along
Kaushik seems to be a trustworthy guy but one never knows.. have to understand how I can get all the info I need, and what would be the right questions to ask…
I hope I will be able to pick the right areas soon… and go with a positive approach!!!
So help me – good forces!!!
spoke to bujju about the doctor's visit. bujju has been told that she should have felt some movement, and that this was just the beginning of the 18th week, so the doctor suggested to wait for another week for the movement to be felt. Seems that the doctor might be taking some casual approach or maybe she is buying time to tell her observations.. can't be sure what... I for myself based on the calc. tool of pregnency seem to conclude this is the 18th week.. considering 19th Dec to be the date of conception.. but i will have to re-visit this and find out what is more accurate..
based on what she told, me I think bujju has this notion that - which might be very valid too for I Am not aware of the reasons nor the custom/logic of the notion - pregnant mothers do not travel in the even number months...
this notion coupled with the doctor's advice seemed to have put her into a different thought process of maybe delaying her travel.. but hope she does not get perturbed by this thought process of what the doctor suggested.. esp. because the doctor adviced she would feel some movement which she has not.. so maybe she feels a little concerned...
but she definitely likes to take my advice on things and I seem to most often rebutt her approach... which is not what I should do.. she tells me things as they are and I seem to just take them for granted instead of giving her sufficient benefit of doubt... CHAnGE THIS ATTITUDE
my whole thinking goes with the fact that she should be able to take some decisions on her own.. for she should know what would work best for everyone.. she will have to be given those options to think ahead in time and plan accordingly... have asked her to discuss with Amma and see what would be the best option.. hoping that travel will not be an issue at all .. will wait for my next call with her and see how to work this out...
